How do you get through?

How do you get through a part of your life that seems impossible to dredge through? As you go through the fog thinking it's getting better the fog just gets thicker!
Daily activities I once enjoyed, I don't have the desire to do. For example ... scrapbooking. There is SO much cool new things out there, paper that I'd love to create layouts on and embellishments, but I can't do it. I've tried, I want to, but I can't bring myself to do it. I look through magazines at all the inspiration that I use to go to my scrapbook room and use, but now I see wonderful pieces of work, beautiful pictures, adorable children ... and get depressed. I want nothing but pictures of my own child to scrapbook!! I can't get get over the fact that right now I would be in China getting my baby. All the pages I did of the process ... all the paper and embellishments I purchased to scrap with that I won't be able to use now.

So how do you get the fog to thin? How do you get past this loss? Is it possible to actually move on??